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The BIG 3 + ME

Planting Social Emotional SEED skills in the Early Years (ages 3-6)

Young children globally are having more difficulty regulating emotions, concentrating & interacting with peers, impacting how they play & learn together. The BIG 3 + ME uses predictable evidence-backed routines that children & practitioners use together to build social & emotional skills side by side. Everyone will regulate emotions together, pay attention more deeply & build relationships.

Overview

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Updated April 2026
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We want to see Early Years practitioners being respected for the vital work they do on a daily basis. We want them to have higher wellbeing and higher job satisfaction (and be higher paid obviously!). Most of all we want them to rediscover the joy of working with the young children in their care and understand the lasting impact that modelling SEL skills in a caring way can have on every child. We also want to see young children treated as humans who have a right to be seen, valued and heard. We want every young child's potential to be realised. We want all young children to feel safe enough to stay curious, enjoy playing and learning with their peers and be able to build relationships with the adults around them so they can ask for help when they need it.

About the innovation

Why did you create this innovation?

Post-Covid there was a need identified by the Education Endowment Foundation to create high quality, evidence-based programmes to support co/self-regulation skills in Early Years settings. As a response, we adapted our existing programme for social and emotional learning, The BIG 5 for Primary (ages 7-11), to meet the needs of Early Years children (ages 3-6), as we had already realised that starting from age 7 was too late to plant the foundational SEED skills needed for all children to meet stage appropriate development milestones.

We also wanted to address educational inequality as young children in more disadvantaged areas already have a bigger gap in social and emotional skill development than their peers and if this is not addressed early on, is unlikely to ever be equalised. As a result, our first pilot was based in 14 Early Years settings in Newham, East London one of the most deprived areas in the UK and co-created with local experienced practitioners.

We also wanted to address the gap in practitioner confidence in modelling social and emotional learning skills. Typically, Early Years practitioners lack professional training in this area, yet are expected to support very young children during challenging transitions, from home to their first early years setting, and then on to their first experience of school. We were keen to professionalise their role & offer experiential training that they could use in their early years setting straight away with immediate impact.

What does your innovation look like in practice?

The BIG 3 + ME is a joyful social and emotional learning programme for 3-6 year olds and their practitioners with 24 sessions themed around the 3 aspects of Being, Doing and Caring. Together everyone gathers around a large centralised mat with 3 special animals sitting in a basket in the middle - Paxton the Peaceful Panda, Tao the Truthful Turtle and Cali the Caring Puppy. Around the mat, children sit for a mini meditations, stand to use British Sign Language to bring to life respectful ways to communicate as a group (e.g Be Calm, Build Trust, Sharing is a Choice etc..) explore inside weather signs for feelings, sing songs and share stories.

The 10-20 minute participatory session can be delivered flexibly to suit the children and uses predictable evidence-backed routines that children and practitioners use to build social and emotional learning skills (emotional regulation, self awareness and building relationships) side by side.

In essence, we believe in planting SEED skills from the earliest age:

SEED:

Slowing down to notice each other and practise mini meditations

Exploring and naming emotions and values

Enabling everyone to access the routines over time

Doing and growing together as practitioners and children

How has it been spreading?

We set up small grant-funded projects targeted at specific areas of disadvantage around the UK (e.g. Coventry, Oxford, Islington/Newham/Haringey in London) with 6-12 settings in one area training together at the same time to cut costs and build a learning community. We also present at education conferences on the theme of SEL skills, Wellbeing or Relationships Education and have created a promo film to showcase the participatory nature of our work and this helps to spark interest in finding out more.

Our programme meets the statutory requirements of the Early Learning Goals in the UK in the area of Personal, Social, Emotional Development, and so nurseries and schools are keen to use our programme to get more support at meeting this expectation. Word-of-mouth between practitioners has worked because teachers love the programme - it is built as much to improve adult wellbeing as children wellbeing by having low level work preparation, a meditation that helps them be calm and rare focussed time to just BE with their children and listen to what they have to say. We are working with Local Education Authorities to spread the word and also some linked nurseries in Private, Voluntary, Independent settings. Our biggest success is when a primary school has tried The BIG 5 and then realises that they want the same impact in their Early Years setting, so go on to try The BIG 3 + ME. This is happening more and more. We run a Parents/Carers workshop which has also lead to more uptake.

How have you modified or added to your innovation?

The BIG 3 + ME needs to be seen to be fully understood, and up until this year we had to travel to model a live session in each setting. So to prepare for upscaling, we created a practitioner training film of a full length modelled lesson, including informative subtitles, to help teachers from anywhere in the world learn the predictable routines, understand the pacing and experience the interactive nature of the session firsthand.

We have also added films for all the British Sign Language for BIG Feelings using children of their age so show facial expressions more clearly and encourage full participation. We all know that children love to learn from other children most. We have also placed all 40 of our BIG Feelings cards and British Sign Language films in one place on our website so that teachers can access them outside of the session and use with other learning e.g. reading, stories, creative play etc..

If I want to try it, what should I do?

Go to our website to find out more:
the-big-think.org

Try a free sample lesson here:
the-big-think.org/free-lesson-kits-enquiry

Watch our promo film here:
https://vimeo.com/1088022226?fl=ls&fe=ec

For further information:
contact@the-big-think.org

Implementation steps

Browse free lesson sample
Download free lesson sample here: https://www.the-big-think.org/free-lesson-kits-enquiry
Watch promo filim
Watch The BIG 3 + ME promo film here: https://vimeo.com/1088022226?fl=ls&fe=ec
Attend optional initial virtual meeting (30 minutes)
Find out if the programme meets the needs of your children by meeting with one of our team for 30 minute virtual meeting. contact@the-big-think.org
Attend free webinar
Invite wider team to free bi-monthly webinar to find out more.
Buy annual membership to access online resource portal and order resource bundles
Access 24 session kits, teacher training film and downloadable resources.
Order physical resource bundle - one per classroom in your setting.
Book optional Staff training
90-minute practitioner training delivered in person or online for up to 30 teachers.

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